We have to break down, somehow, the societal constructs and/or "ideals" that marginalize and often even malign the folks who don't fall within their boundaries. I'm sick of being marginalized myself and seeing people I know victimized by this "fit into the ideal, or nothing" bullshit. That's part of the reason I'm an anarchist. :-) Survival of the fittest went out with the monkeys. At least I'd like to think we sapiens are more civil than that. Apparently we're not, so far.
From the man with a mole on his head and crooked teeth and carrying a little extra baggage around the middle that you just can't seem to ignore. ---who still wouldn't mind putting a foot in your ass. >:=)