January 22nd, 2009

Hey, "player": You really don't mean very much.

If you're one of those fuckers who can't take no for an answer and think that you're hot shit just because you're "persistent" enough to get laid, listen up:

The following quote came from this post by Melissa McEwan:

But in a culture where no doesn't mean no, you've just got to be a "persistent motherf**ker" until a woman relents—and then you can claim victory and convince yourself you're some kind of awesome Casanova who owes his sexual conquests to "poetry" and not the wholesale rejection of every women's right to say no and then be left the f**k alone instead of wooed, pressured, cajoled, coerced, manipulated, or otherwise convinced to have sex.
(emphasis mine)

Again, we (read:men) have the audacity to wonder why some women are so angry. These wannabe Cassanovas think that no means "I'm really playing hard to get. I want you to poke, prod, and push me until I give up and give you what you want," while it really means, "No, get lost, leave me the hell alone." When you do "convince" a woman to sleep with you, pal, you have achieved nothing but perpetuating a rapist culture where men continue to believe they are entitled to a woman's body. They believe that she doesn't have a mind of her own, with its own separate set of hopes, wants, needs, dreams, desires, and expectations that probably have jack diddly shit to do with them. That doesn't make them players, ballers, high-rollers, pimps, cassanovas, whatever. It makes them tools. Douche bags. Morons. You know the type:

Among the folks with whom I choose to associate, tools get taken to the woodshed where they belong. No matter what you might think, the world is not here for you to conquer. Not that you could anyway. Just stop, guys. You're embarrassing yourselves.

music game= WIN!

Only Play if you're profoundly bored.

Step 1: Put your music player on shuffle.
Step 2: Post the first line from the first 20 songs that play, no matter how embarrassing.
Step 3: Bold Strike out the songs when someone guesses both artist and track correctly.
Step 4: Looking them up on Google or any other search engine is CHEATING!
Step 5: If you like the game, post it!

1. he couldn't believe how easy it was

2. and I can't become my father when it's all been said and done

3. i want my money back i'm down here drowning in your fat

4. i should have known you'd always scratch that itch

5. my god sits in the back of a limosine

6. this is the first day of my last days

7. ain't from the streets of compton ain't from no prison yard

8. ah, there is room for both of us, both of us apart

9. i've seen the only living traces flicker in the sulfur

10. you had all of them on your side, didn't you

11. Now when i go to bed it's almost time to wake up

12. i'm from where the gold and diamonds are raping the earth

13. all of these accidents that happen follow the dot

14. enfermo llegue y para componerme ando de vago

15. the ocean floor is hidden from your viewing lens

16. are you ready for the truth or for another fight

17. i bomb atomically socrate's philosophies

18. nos compraron el alma barata

19. proud enough for you to call me arrogant

20. come ride with me through the veins of history